Positive Father Figures in Our Community

This Father’s Day we wanted to hear from dads and father figures in our community about what it means to be a father. So we asked them two questions….

1) As a father, what are the most important things you do to show up for your kids and family?

2) How do you show your kids what a healthy relationship looks like?

And this is what they said…

Tyler and Quincy Brown, Williston, VT

“By actually showing up. This means a balance of caring for needs, lots of play, meeting her in her own space and helping her grow in her own skills, experience and interests.

To start, reinforcing that nobody is perfect and that life and relationships don’t come with a manual. As an adult and parent giving respect openly by listening, asking open ended questions and taking an interest in all relationships helps set the example for healthy relationships. Authenticity is a core value in our family and so ‘walking the talk’ is essential for setting that example.”

Jeff and Jackson Abrahamovich, South Burlington, VT

“Provide for them and put them first. You only get one chance at being a parent to them so make the most of it. Engage in their interests and encourage them to explore new things.

I try to show that we are a team. No one person is responsible for all the tasks. Help out where you can and be attentive to your partner.”

Alex and Annabel Morgan, Colchester, VT

“I try to model a healthy relationship by being an active co-parent, taking ownership of everyday things our daughter needs like packing lunch, school drop off, keeping a reliable schedule, and lots of play time. It's hard to be attentive all the time but just physically showing up is half the battle.”